Spanking is a sensation that simply gets you sexually excited and your juices flowing. If you want to deliver a smooth dense spank that will drive your partner insane, try paddling.
Paddling is associated with stingy and thuddy sensations. Sting ringers on the skin surface, while a thud is a deeper pain felts in the tissues. The sensation delivered (or received) depends on the type, size, shape, and material of the paddle you choose. Here is a guide to help you determine which paddles will deliver to your sexual fantasies
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Spencer Paddles: famous for their severity, they have multiple holes on the surface to reduce air resistance and intensify the sting sensation. They can cause blisters in the case of rough play.
Furry Paddles: these are best for warm up and teasing sensory play. Furry paddles deliver a light sting sensation that doesn’t last long.
Short Board:These are short boarded paddles worn on the hand. The intensity delivered depends on the force applied on the swing. Realistic masturbators great for using during sex, simply slide it in and spank your partner repeatedly as you thrust them to intensify their sexual excitement.
Imprint Paddles: these are designed to leave patterns or strips on the skin like a temporary pink tattoo. They can deliver a thuddy or stingy sensation depending on the force and materials used.
Electro-Stim Paddles: If you like enjoying some electric shock therapy, turn up the orgasmic voltage with every spank. Just remember to apply electro gel to your skin to avoid burns. Also avoid E-Stim paddles if you suffer from any heart condition, epilepsy or pregnant.
Vampire Paddles: if you like it bloody, then you are in for a treat. These paddles consist of sharp spikes that pierce the skin with every strike, leaving you with a bloody painful bottom. Its brutal design is better left for dense sadistic players. Be sure to sterilize the paddle and take health precautions to avoid infections.
When it comes to paddling, small paddles deliver a more focused impact on a smaller area, whereas, larger paddles spread the impact over a larger area hence, a balanced lighter sensation. You might want small paddles to spank small areas such as butt cheek or inner thigh, or large enough for double spanking.
Long and thin paddles deliver an intense stinging thump sensation that can ringer for a long time. While, round and thicker paddles deliver a thud deep massage sensation.
Paddles are made from different materials each crafted to deliver a unique sensation. You will find them in wood, metal, leather, rubber, plastics, silicone, padded and many other materials. Here is a breakdown of materials sensations.
Fluffy:these combine two materials such as wood and wool to create a light soothing paddle. They are more for teasing than pain delivery hence, perfect for beginners. You can use them to warm up and arouse your bottom. For advance plays, these paddles are great for soothing and cooling down the nerves after a rough play.
Rubber: only use this material if you are dense into pain. It can cause intense pain with a stinging sensation.
Leather: the impact varies depending on how soft the paddle is.It tended to have a stingy sensation. Leather is commonly combined with wood to create a rigid and thuddy impact.
Silicone: don’t be cheated by its smooth feel, these bad boys deliver a deep painful sting. Start slow and work your way up to your desired sensation.
Wood and Plastics: if its pain and adrenaline you seek, these materials will deliver. Because of rigidity, the stinging sensation reverberates into the skin, stirring you up into a fiery confusion of bittersweet arousal.
Metal: it’s aesthetical and enticing to the eye, but it is extremely painful and stinging. Its best left for advanced players who are turned on by dense pain.
How to Use Paddles: Positioning and Technique
Paddling is a game of angles. It can be enjoyed in different positions whether standing, lying down, bent over or doggy style. You might need to change between positions to allow access of the thighs, breasts and genitals.
For those slim people without the extra natural padding, lying down or standing are the safest positions. If bent, the skin and muscles are stretched, this can risk hitting the pelvic bone or sciatic nerve.
As the master, you have the power to control the intensity of the sensations delivered. For a sting impact, lift the paddles immediately to allow a swipe of cold air on the skin. For a deep thuddy sensation, hold down the paddle after the strike. Twist things up, alternate both the sensations in one session for a body numbing erotic gratification. Then climax with a furry soothing and maybe a deep penile thrusting for toe-curling multiple orgasms.
Be sure to respect your bottom and deliver only what they can handle. Establish a safe word for safer play.
Padding Guidelines and Precautions
- Don’t hit your partner using the edge of your paddle. You also need to ensure the surface is smooth (no splinters) before use.
- Be gentle especially on the genitals and breast.
- Avoid striking the face, neck, kidney areas, back, spine and joints (elbows, knees and ankles).
- Don’t share your paddles if they are made from porous materials.
Most paddles are easy to clean. Soak a cotton pad in warm soapy water and an antibacterial toy cleaner (visit Peaches and Screams) and wipe the paddle surface and handle after use. Apply a conditioner on leather materials to preserve the texture.
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